The chat room experience can be wildly unforeseeable. Anything can happen, depending on who is on the guest list and the general drift of the invitation. They don’t need much encouragement to become fun perversions, safe places where you will have the courage to do what in other environments would be unthinkable. How fun is that? But they may also serve as warm cubby holes in which intimate partnerships evolve. Make them a reflection of your inner self.